Smart Tips on Flirting

Here you will find the best Tips on Flirting that can be used anywhere. You need to tweek your game plan depending on where your doing the flirting but the basic premise is always the same which is to make it go as smoothly and comfortably as possible. Let's get to it.

Tips on Flirting: #1

Confidence: A little show of confidence goes a long way. Try not to be nervous and if you are try to make it not show.

You need to not think about it. Get your mind off of what your doing and get engaged in the conversation. Stop dwelling on what to say next just be observant!

When something comes to your mind or you put one and one together linking some part of the conversation to an experience, just say it!

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Tips on Flirting: #2

Timing: Timing is key. If you make eye contact more than once with someone soon after you must engage. Waiting too long is dangerous. This gives other people time to swoop in and burn to the ground the Flirting approach you have been thinking about and planning.

When to do it? The best time to flirt with someone face to face through dialogue is when they are alone or not talking to the people they are with. This tip is not written in stone but it is much easier to get the attention and keep the attention of one than a few (the person your flirting with and their company).

Tips on Flirting: #3

Smile. Smile when you first approach and during the first words you utter. This should be doable every time because you will always be using lighthearted, funny, or plain old observant first Flirting words.

Tips on Flirting: #4

What to say? If your nervous and not confident this will seem harder than it really is. You can almost say anything that is relevant or funny and it will be a good icebreaker. It does not have to be a pick up line. Repeat it does not have to be a cheesy pick up line! I rarely use pick up lines. I just say something.

Below you will find some examples of things to say. These are not meant to be repeated word for word because every situation and setting is different. I rarely to almost never say the same line twice! These are to get the point across.

- This band is pretty good. You ever seen them before?

- You know so and so (the person hosting or helping host the event or party)?

- This place isn't bad. It's packed.

- (This is a tough one but I put it out there sometimes if I can't tell at all whether they are or not.) Are you single?

- (If your unfamiliar with the area.) What's another good place to go around here?

- You a Phillies fan? If the TV is on and a local sports team is playing.

See the point here? I'm just putting really general stuff above. You just want to say something that pertains to the present. A line that breaks the ice but can be countered with a comment or similiar observation.

Tips on Flirting: #5

** Very soon after the initial contact ask them their name. As soon as the first thought is finished. This leads the 2 of you right into further dialogue! And don't forget it!

One last thing:

Tips on Flirting: #6

Play it cool. Do not over engage the person. If you flirted with someone earlier and are not talking with them at the present don't sweat it. What I mean by playing it cool is don't loiter around the persons area and don't be looking over too much trying to make constant eye contact. That looks like a lack of confidence. Either move on or see if you cross paths again later.

It is sometimes tough but with these Tips on Flirting and a boost in confidence you can make your chances of success 5 fold.

Don't give up if it doesn't work 1, 2, or even 5 times. What do you have to lose? Now get out there and have fun.

Be sure to check out our other popular "Dating & Love" articles below:

First Date Tips

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